Open Control Panel Windows check the Start menu for the link.
Once Windows Update opens, click or tap the Change settings link on the left.
From the dropdown box select Download updates but let me choose weather to install them then click OK
Download updates but let me choose whether to install them: Choose this to have Windows Update automatically check for and download important updates but not install them. You’ll have to explicitly choose to install the updates either from Windows Update or during the next shutdown process.
That’s it your all done!